Remember that comparison is the thief of joy! You cannot compare your chapter 1 to someone else's chapter 20. We are all a work in progress and while we sometimes aspire to be where someone else is, it only serves to add undue stress and anxiety, pressure and frustration!
We are all a work in progress and together we can help each other to achieve goals that individually we may give up on! It's important to strive to be a better YOU every day! Learn from others....ask questions....take advice....and make continuous changes!!! Every journey begins with a single step and over time you'll eventually realize that you've run a mile.